
At the age of 15 I got hit by a car while running, spent three days in intensive care, and many years mentally and physically recovering from the injuries I sustained in the accident. I’m very lucky. You cannot tell I got hit by a car. The most important things I learned at 15 and have had to relearn over the years:
1. Do what you want to do!
2. Change what you are doing if it is not working for you.
3. Being alive is success!
Do what you want to do! It is really simple! If you want kids, have kids! If you want a career, have a career! If you want it all, go for it! If you want to be like me and retire early, make some good financial decisions and you’ll be on your way!
Change what you are doing if it is not working for you. Are you happy? I asked myself this question over a four year period! Can you believe it? I could not figure it out.
I thought I was happy when I: exercised more seriously in 2005; Shopped Til I Dropped in 2006; worked on my Master’s degree from 2006 – 2008, started helping Alan pay off our house in 2007; invested heavily in the stock market in 2008; and desired buying a ridiculous number of condos until late 2008!
Reflecting on those years from 2005 – 2008, I realize I had many clever distractions to motivate me to get to my job:
1. Exercise kept me going in 2005. I started getting healthy and shifted focus to my personal well-being for once in my life!
2. In 2006, shopping gave me a sense of power: I could buy what I wanted and did. But did I really have power? No! Shopping is not power; shopping removes power from your hands and gives it to corporations or other people! You do not have personal freedom as quickly if you shop a lot!
3. Obtaining my Master’s degree from late 2006 – early 2008 forced me to stay at the company because they paid for 66% of it; if I did not stay a year after I received my diploma, I would have had to return the money. Going to school kept me from being impulsive; I had a lot of time to decide if I really liked my job! And I tried hard to like it!
4. In early 2007, when I got on board with Alan to pay off our house, I became hopeful.
5. All the investing I did in 2008 in the stock market became gravy.
Finally, I am happy. But it required four years of distractions to figure it out! Some people may never figure it out. Some people give up or check out instead of making a change. Life is too short to give up or check out. Don’t give up!
Being alive is success! We are in this together. I believe that we can collectively uplift one another to make this journey more pleasant. Realize when you look people in the eye that it is a gift that we are all alive and breathing. You will start looking at people differently. You will be able to give unconditional love more easily. Trust me on this!
At the moment, I am snow skiing in Aspen/Snowmass. I am alive and snow skiing. I am blessed.
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