Archive | January, 2010

Mad Dogs British Pub – San Antonio

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Alan and I went for Happy Hour at Mad Dogs British Pub with a couple of Austin friends we met in our running group! We had already eaten earlier at Paesanos-Riverwalk and were ready to celebrate our successful completion of the San Antonio Rock ‘n’ Roll Half Marathon! What better way to celebrate than at a bar on the San Antonio-Riverwalk.

Mad Dogs is a fun bar. Alan noticed that it was slightly smoky. He mentioned that San Antonio does not have the same law as Austin and people can smoke in the bar. He could smell the smoke in the bar and on the patio! I did not notice it, so it (1) may not have been strong or (2) my sniffer was not working or (3) my mind was elsewhere! I think #3 probably wins; I was thrilled the race was over and I wanted to socialize!

Mad Dogs has an extensive beer list; it is a pub! Instead, I ordered a glass of La Crema Pinot Noir. I rarely feel like drinking beer. I am familiar with La Crema and it always pleases!

If you can overlook the cigaratte smoke, Mad Dogs is a relaxing bar on a Sunday afternoon to hang out and talk with friends!

Snowmass Condo

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Ski in/Ski Out Condo! Our Snowmass condo in Top of the Village required a slight walk for ski in ski out, but that did not bother us. The 2 bedroom, 2 bath condo was spacious and well-appointed. The living room sofa and 2 armchairs were oversized and overstuffed. The lighting in the main room as it became night added romantic ambiance and cozy comfort. I was soothed by looking out the windows at the baby butt bare birch trees at twilight or at the Christmas lights wrapped around the patio banister on a condo one floor above and adjacent to our condo in the evening.

The vacation condo rental becomes a second home for a week without the expense of a second home!

Nick and Jake's – Parkville, Missouri

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Love it for many reasons! This is the third time that I have dined at the Parkville, Missouri location with friends and family. I have been satisfied with my food on each visit. You cannot go wrong here! On prior visits I have ordered the hummus (lunch) and the beef tenderloin (dinner). On our most recent visit over the Thanksgiving holiday, Alan and I each ordered a salad and shared the Reuben! From my write up of Schilo’s, you know how much I love Reubens!

The Nick’s Salad had mixed greens, bacon, red onions, marinated tomatoes, blue cheese and kalamata olives, tossed in a Tuscan vinaigrette. It had adequate crunch from the bacon and onions and robust flavor from all the ingredients mixed together. The serving size for a small was generous!

Nick and Jake’s makes a helluva good Rueben! I would recommend it to Reuben lovers and that says a lot! The Reuben was generous in size and when I saw it, I thought, smart that we shared it. Sharing food can save money when you eat out. Alan and I share food on occasion, if neither of us is ravenous. We both ate a hearty lunch earlier in the day at the Gingerich Dutch Pantry and agreed on a smaller dinner.

The marbled rye was grilled and complemented the corn beef. The corn beef was not too lean, it had enough fat in it to make the sandwich satisfying. The sauerkraut, Swiss cheese and Thousand Island dressing added to the overall flavor of the sandwich, but did not overpower it.

Nick and Jake’s makes homemade potato chips! I love good potato chips! I recommend these chips; they had a nice crunch and earthy flavor.

Nick and Jake’s has reliably good American food. It is a place that I can dine and consistently find something on the menu that I feel like eating. So far, all my choices have pleased me! Try it out!

Deutsch Apple Bakery – Blanco, Texas

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A great discovery! When we travel down a road less traveled, we sometimes discover a hidden gem along the way. The Deutsch Apple Bakery is a diamond in Blanco. It is in small red building with a tin roof, at the end of RR 165 and Loop 163. If you are in the mood for a scenic drive from Austin to San Antonio and/or a satisfying breakfast/brunch/lunch, visit The Deutsch Apple Bakery. On our way to the Rock ‘n’ Roll San Antonio Half Marathon in November, we stopped in to check it out.

Every once in a while, I enjoy quiche! The Deutsch Apple Bakery serves quiche for breakfast/brunch/lunch. The bakery offers two quiche options: spinach and bacon or ham and mushroom. Both quiches were moist, yet firm, not runny; they were the right consistency for quiche! The crust was generous and homemade – but of course, it is a bakery! Delicious!

The Deutsch Apple Bakery
is also known for their apple pecan muffins! As Alan put it, “I think it is the best muffin I have ever had!” He is not a muffin eater, so that says a lot! For people who do not like muffins, it is worth a try.

In the large glass pastry case, the bakery displayed a variety of items for your choosing: apple pie, pumpkin pie, apple pecan cake, apple pecan muffins, chocolate chip cookies, snickerdoodles, etc. Based on the season, they have different items!

Have breakfast/brunch/lunch! Try an apple pecan muffin!

Mistreatment – Respect Yourself

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People are mistreated every day. I am fortunate that, as I approach my fortieth year, I am no longer being mistreated by anybody. I feel blessed. To not tolerate mistreatment requires self-respect. It is courageous to say, “I am not putting up with it anymore!”

What do I consider mistreatment?

1. Screaming or yelling.
2. Hurtful words.
3. Ultimatums.
4. Threats.

How can a person trust a person who behaves in this manner? What would prevent this person from acting in this manner again? Why would anybody want to have a relationship with somebody who mistreats him/her?

If you have a person in you life who mistreats you:

1) Hire a good therapist.
2) Determine if the person has the desire to change his/her behavior.
3) If the person cannot change, it is OK to distance yourself from him/her.

Have respect for yourself first. You are the most important person in your life! Remember that!

Cooking – Grilling – Alan

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I must say, I am really blessed. I have a husband who is leaning towards considering cooking one of his hobbies. I know he considers running a hobby and grilling a hobby, but now cooking too? I am lucky!

If I do a Week In Review: Alan’s grilling and cooking efforts, here it goes:

Sunday: Friend’s house
Monday: Grilled and smoked pork ribs
Tuesday: Grilled NY Strip and green salad.
Wednesday: On our own!
Thursday: Chicken ravioli pasta tossed in olive oil and spices!
Friday: Capellini pasta tossed in olive oil with fresh tomatoes and shaved Parmesan cheese
Saturday: Grilled and smoked pork ribs

On most evenings, I’ll make my own green salad to complement the entrée, but sometimes Alan makes me a salad. He has started hand grating the Parmesan cheese for the salads and the pasta.

This may or may not be a typical week! This is the first time I have analyzed it! But when I did, I realized that Alan grills or cooks often because he likes to do it. He makes the food for himself and asks me if I want any. Whereas, I do not like to cook, but will cook occasionally, out of guilt, perhaps!

For the two short stints that I was macrobiotic or vegan, I cooked and enjoyed it. And shortly after a close friend launched What To Cook When, I found it fun and exciting trying out some of her recipes; she is a creative cook and she loves cooking. But now, I cannot come up with a good reason to cook: anything I want to eat I can buy at the store prepared already! Is it as healthy? No! But it works for me!

Organized Exercising – Socializing

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I love sports and the social component of sports activity. When Alan and I bought our house, I purchased a commercial quality elliptical trainer and recumbent bike and I rarely used them. Thus, I sold both pieces of equipment. Instead, I belong to at least one organized exercise group throughout the year.

Organized exercise is fun and social. The power of exercising with others is phenomenal.

If you cannot get motivated to exercise, but want to exercise more regularly, join an organized exercise group for something you’d like to try. Making friends in an organized exercise group should motivate you to go.

Schilo's – San Antonio

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I love Reubens!
More than hamburgers? Yes! Hard to find in Texas? Not as prevalent as in other parts of the country. Low demand, low supply. In Austin, neither Manny Hattan’s or Katz’s beckon me to return on a regular basis: I have made better Reubens at home! That says a lot.

From 1990 – 1992, I worked at Amer’s Deli in Ann Arbor, Michigan; part-time during school and full-time in the summer. Amer’s copied Zingerman’s, a nationally known deli. Zingerman’s is probably the best deli outside of New York City. Read about it and try it!

The University of Michigan accepted 40% of its students from out-of-state and most of the out-of-state students were from New York and New Jersey. Not all New Yorkers or New Jersians have a discerning palette for Reubens, but those who ate deli food regularly did.

The most important ingredients in a Reuben are: (1) the quality of the corned beef and (2) the bread. It is hard to mess up Swiss cheese, sauerkraut and Russian dressing. Schilo’s [pronounced She-Lows] made an average Reuben. The chef toasted the bread; I’m used to the bread being grilled. The quality of the bread was good, however. The corned beef was lean. The amount of sauerkraut added flavor: not too much, not too little! Unfortunately, the Reuben had hardly discernible Swiss cheese in it and no Russian dressing. Alan noticed this too!

I’d eat at Schilo’s again for the pea soup and the German potato salad. Schilo’s is known for their homemade pea soup. I ordered a cup of this soup. It is homemade and hearty. It was not overly salty. I like to taste the peas, not the salt. Salt should bring out the taste of the other ingredients in a dish; it should not overpower the other ingredients. It should also not be in such large quantity in a dish that I must consume glass upon glass of water to not feel thirsty.

The German potato salad is the best that Alan and I have tasted: tangy, mustard, mustard seed, firm, not crumbly potatoes! I know German potato salad; I had a German speaking grandmother who made it. If you want authentic German potato salad in Texas, Schilo’s is the place to go!

The atmosphere of the deli has character. Considering we sat at the bar, the service was average! Compared to other delis where I have eaten, it is reasonably priced. Downright cheap!

Life Philosophy

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At the age of 15 I got hit by a car while running, spent three days in intensive care, and many years mentally and physically recovering from the injuries I sustained in the accident. I’m very lucky. You cannot tell I got hit by a car. The most important things I learned at 15 and have had to relearn over the years:

1. Do what you want to do!
2. Change what you are doing if it is not working for you.
3. Being alive is success!

Do what you want to do! It is really simple! If you want kids, have kids! If you want a career, have a career! If you want it all, go for it! If you want to be like me and retire early, make some good financial decisions and you’ll be on your way!

Change what you are doing if it is not working for you. Are you happy? I asked myself this question over a four year period! Can you believe it? I could not figure it out.

I thought I was happy when I: exercised more seriously in 2005; Shopped Til I Dropped in 2006; worked on my Master’s degree from 2006 – 2008, started helping Alan pay off our house in 2007; invested heavily in the stock market in 2008; and desired buying a ridiculous number of condos until late 2008!

Reflecting on those years from 2005 – 2008, I realize I had many clever distractions to motivate me to get to my job:

1. Exercise kept me going in 2005. I started getting healthy and shifted focus to my personal well-being for once in my life!
2. In 2006, shopping gave me a sense of power: I could buy what I wanted and did. But did I really have power? No! Shopping is not power; shopping removes power from your hands and gives it to corporations or other people! You do not have personal freedom as quickly if you shop a lot!
3. Obtaining my Master’s degree from late 2006 – early 2008 forced me to stay at the company because they paid for 66% of it; if I did not stay a year after I received my diploma, I would have had to return the money. Going to school kept me from being impulsive; I had a lot of time to decide if I really liked my job! And I tried hard to like it!
4. In early 2007, when I got on board with Alan to pay off our house, I became hopeful.
5. All the investing I did in 2008 in the stock market became gravy.

Finally, I am happy. But it required four years of distractions to figure it out! Some people may never figure it out. Some people give up or check out instead of making a change. Life is too short to give up or check out. Don’t give up!

Being alive is success! We are in this together. I believe that we can collectively uplift one another to make this journey more pleasant. Realize when you look people in the eye that it is a gift that we are all alive and breathing. You will start looking at people differently. You will be able to give unconditional love more easily. Trust me on this!

At the moment, I am snow skiing in Aspen/Snowmass. I am alive and snow skiing. I am blessed.

Snowmass – Day 4 – OK

Taking a 6 day ski trip is a lot of skiing. That is why Alan and I are only on the mountain a couple hours each day. We put in our time several years ago to reach a certain skiing ability and now, for the most part, we are happy with our ability. I am content with my ability and do not have a pressing need to improve: I can ski a lot of varied terrain, albeit I am not the most graceful at it. However, looking graceful skiing on ungroomed black terrain and moguls requires a lot more effort than I am willing to expend. As I have gotten older, I have less of an ego and I am happier for it. I’m no longer doing things to impress other people! I am starting to question having a public blog: Isn’t blogging a way to impress others? I’m still debating that one! I’ll be reading books on the psychology behind blogging soon!

Tangent: If I tried to become a more graceful mogul skier, I wouldn’t be doing it for myself. I’d be doing it for others. And the reality is: who else sees me? If I didn’t tell you this now, you would never know. I could lie to you and tell you I ski moguls like Jennifer Heil. So what’s the point of that? I’m sure you know people like that – you know, the people that toot their horn about stupid stuff. I say, only toot your horn if you are going to get more money for it. Your friends and family do not care! They love you whether or not you toot your horn and you are probably easier to be around if you are not tooting your horn! Alan would like to be able to turn on moguls better.

Statistics:
2 Hours of Skiing [1:30PM - 3:30PM]
Several black runs
Several blue runs

We covered some of the same terrain that we covered on Day 2. We added Sneaky’s today. That was a fun blue run with some glades. Overall, it was an Ok day. I start losing my enthusiasm by Day 4. I remember years ago I thought I’d want to live in a ski area, but now I am content visiting a ski area once or twice a season and skiing at most ten days total. Snow skiing is a good time, but it is not a passion of mine like running or yoga.

Highlights:
1. We got our skis waxed overnight. When Alan went to pick up his skis, he had one wrong ski. An identical ski, except for the binding. Funny, the binding was the same size, just a different one. The other skier apparently skied on one of Alan’s skis today and one of his own. Alan decided to turn in the skis instead of skiing on somebody else’s ski. The ski shop was very apologetic and gave Alan a free demo pair for the day. Alan said, “The skis are shorter than I would have liked, but I wanted to try a certain ski.”
2. I crashed for the first time today. Not a big deal. Nothing too eventful. I was near the bottom of some crud and leaned back on my skis and fell off to the side. I was going slow because I was in a gully, so no harm really. My skis didn’t even pop off. I attribute this fall to being mentally lazy more than anything. Alan had a similar fall on Day 2.

I did not take very many pictures today. Here are a few:

Narrow black run for practicing turns, not steep

JVC: narrow black run for practicing turns, not steep

Alan on an unmarked black mogul run

Alan on an unmarked black mogul run

The area where I fell is on the other side of the bare trees

The area where I fell is on the other side of the bare trees